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You’re smart, self aware, and deeply committed to making your relationship work. Yet, somehow, the same arguments keep cycling.
Relationship coaching helps couples shift from survival mode to a secure bond. This isn’t about rehashing who said what. It’s about learning how to talk, how to listen, and how to show up for each other.
Whether you’re facing major challenges or craving a deeper connection, relationship coaching helps you break the patterns keeping you stuck.
Rediscover your strengths as a couple through online coaching, designed to fit real life with flexible scheduling and weekend appointments.
If your relationship feels like just another chore, book a free 15-minute call to see how couples coaching with actionable steps can help you create a stronger partnership.
“Debbie & her coaching saved our marriage! We have had so much going on these past few months, I’m not sure if we would have made it out still together if it weren’t for her help. The support has helped us communicate, listen, and react so much better to each other!”
– COUPLE ON THE BRINK OF DIVORCE IN CA
The fighting cycles ended.
We now feel safe to share
anything with each other.
– ENTREPRENEUR COUPLE IN SAN FRANCISCO, CA
You used to feel that rush of excitement when you saw each other, but now you feel more like roommates. The late-night work emails, back-to-back meetings, busy schedules, and endless deadlines leave little room for real connection. Conversations turn transactional. Date nights get postponed. Emotional intimacy feels… distant.
That’s where relationship coaching online comes in. This isn’t therapy to unpack your past. Couples coaching helps you thrive together in the present and design a future where both your ambitions and your connection flourish. Hit the RESET button and reinvest in your relationship with a couples expert.
Married. Engaged. Dating. Committed. Straight. Bi. Gay. Neurodivergent. Polyamorous.
“WE HAVE HAD MORE AWARENESS & CHANGE FROM THIS PROCESS & TOOLS
THAN ANY OTHER THERAPY WE’VE EVER DONE.”
– COUPLE MARRIED FOR 20 YEARS
DEBBIE CHERRY, LMFT
Yes, relationship coaching online can be highly effective for many couples, particularly when both partners are committed to growth and open to change. Research and anecdotal evidence suggest it works best for high-functioning, self-aware couples who want to address specific issues like miscommunication, emotional distance, or recurring conflicts.
Unlike traditional therapy that may focus heavily on the past, coaching is built around clear goals, practical tools, and tangible results. Couples coaching gives you the structure and support to change how you communicate, navigate conflict productively, and connect emotionally.
Most couples don’t need years of work. They need NEW patterns, better repair skills, and a safe space to reconnect. Read about the couples’ success
stories here.
Yes. Coaching can absolutely help if you’re constantly fighting or avoiding each other. In fact, that’s one of the most common reasons couples seek support. Whether it feels like every conversation turns into an argument or you’re walking on eggshells to keep the peace, relationship coaching helps you create new patterns that bring you closer.
You’ll learn how to de-escalate tension, express your needs clearly, and rebuild emotional intimacy so you can talk without shutting down or blowing up. Even couples who’ve felt stuck for years often begin to feel more connected and understood within just a few sessions.
Couples quickly start noticing signs like fewer blowups, more productive conversations, feeling more like a team, or simply understanding each other’s needs more clearly. You may still have challenges, but they won’t escalate as quickly, or linger as long. As your relationship coach, I’ll help track those shifts with you, celebrate wins, and adapt the approach as needed to keep the momentum going.
You’re welcome to start with a free 15-minute consultation.
Couples coaching has the potential to save a relationship by offering a structured space to address conflicts and improve communication. The strategic support of a couples expert can help you learn new skills for managing disagreements and strengthening your bond. Success depends on the commitment and active participation of both partners. While coaching cannot guarantee a saved relationship, it often provides the tools and support needed to navigate challenges, rebuild trust, and create the kind of future you want together.
Need momentum now? Let’s start with a free 15-minute call to see how I can help your relationship.
The investment for each 50-minute couples coaching session online is $350. Clients leave each appointment will valuable tools based on 25 years of experience, and clear action steps. Most couples experience real momentum and clarity from the very first session.
When applicable, clients can deduct sessions as a business expense. In certain cases, companies will reimburse coaching. I accept Credit Cards, Debit Cards, and HSA cards.
If you have more questions, please schedule a free 15-minute consultation.
Relationship coaching focuses on relationship patterns, communication skills, and emotional growth, which is not considered a “medical necessity” by insurance providers.
Couples coaching is a forward-focused approach that helps you and your partner communicate better, resolve tension faster, and reconnect emotionally, even during high-stress seasons.
It’s not about digging endlessly into your past. It’s about learning how to show up differently now. You’ll gain tools to interrupt negative patterns, express needs without blame, and repair quickly when things go sideways.
See what’s possible with couples coaching online, and read about the couples’ success stories here.
Couples coaching is more results-oriented. While therapy may explore past wounds, coaching focuses on creating NEW habits. Relationship coaching helps couples learn communication skills and strategies to enhance their partnership in the present.
Coaching empowers couples to focus set shared goals, and rediscover your strengths as a team. Unlike traditional counseling, coaching doesn’t diagnose. Couples in coaching online build emotional resilience to overcome obstacles together.
Not sure if couples coaching or therapy is right for you? Book a free 15-minute consultation to find the best fit.
In your first couples coaching session, we’ll explore your relationship strengths, current challenges, and clarify your goals. You’ll both have space to share your perspectives while I begin identifying patterns that are keeping you stuck.
Couples coaching is a collaborative process. Together, we’ll uncover blind spots, and practice tools that lead to better connection. Each session is customized to meet your unique needs while keeping momentum toward the relationship you both want.
Each session, you will have actionable steps, proven frameworks and expert guidance so you can feel more like partners again instead of opponents. Expect each session to be a mix of perspective-shifting conversation, practical communication tools, and real-time coaching.
Grab the Communication Toolkit for couples to get started with some activities to do with your partner right away.
It’s incredibly common for one partner to feel ready before the other, especially if they feel judged, or have previously had a negative experience in therapy. While couples coaching works best when both people are involved, change can still begin with just one of you. If you start learning how to communicate more clearly, respond instead of react, and break old patterns, your partner will likely start responding differently too.
You’re welcome to start with a free 15-minute consultation, and I’ll help you figure out a path forward that feels supportive and doable for both of you.
Many of the couples I work with are not in crisis. They are proactive, high-achieving, and just feeling disconnected, stuck in the same arguments, or wanting to grow together more intentionally. Couples coaching isn’t about fixing what’s broken; it’s also about leveraging your strengths and building habits that help you stay close, especially during hard times. Think of it as expert coaching for your emotional bond. The earlier you start, the easier it is to shift patterns and create real connection.
Book a free 15-minute consultation to get clarity and support tailored to your relationship goals.
Coaching is for any couple looking to strengthen their bond, whether you’re navigating challenges, feeling like roommates, or simply wanting to deepen intimacy. Relationship coaching is for couples juggling work, social lives, and responsibilities who want to prioritize their relationship without rehashing old wounds. From newlyweds to long-term partners, coaching helps you grow as a team.
Yes, couples coaching can be incredibly helpful for neurodivergent partnerships. In fact, it can be even more important when different communication styles, sensory needs, or emotional processing patterns are at play. The key is finding a couples expert who understands neurodivergence and knows how to support both partners in feeling seen, safe, and respected. Here are a few ways that relationship coaching can be helpful for neurodivergent couples:
Whether ADHD, autism spectrum, sensory sensitivities, or other processing differences, a neurodiversity-affirming approach becomes a bridge to understanding each other better so you can co-regulate in a way that feels safe. If you want to learn more about my approach, start with a free 15-minute consultation to get a feel for the process.
Couples coaching may not be suitable for couples experiencing acute mental health emergencies, or domestic violence, where immediate and intensive in-person intervention is needed. Assess your situation carefully with a professional’s guidance before choosing the best support for your relationship. If you’re unsure, I’m happy to help you figure out the best next step in a consultation.
If you’re stuck having the same argument on repeat, feeling emotionally distant, or just want to reconnect, couples coaching can help empower you both. Whether you’re navigating big life transitions or simply want to strengthen your bond, coaching offers practical tools to improve communication, deepen connection, and shift unhelpful patterns quickly.
Many couples just try one session and take it from there. You might be surprised how much clarity and hope you can gain right away. Book your free consultation here and let’s take the first step together.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California, Texas & Florida.
Relationship Coaching available worldwide.
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