You miss your partner. No matter what you do, the same fights keep happening. The distance between you grows, leaving you feeling frustrated and disconnected.
Marriage counseling online gives you expert guidance and practical TOOLS to break the cycle, improve conversations, and reconnect.
Whether you’re in Austin or nearby in Central Texas, online marriage counseling gives you flexible scheduling, weekend appointments, and practical tools to stop negative patterns and reconnect as lifelong partners.
One of the most eye-opening lessons I learned in graduate school at the University of Southern California in Los Angeles was this: The biggest factor in a client’s success isn’t the type of therapy, the technique, or even the duration. It’s the strength of the therapeutic relationship.
After 15 years of marriage and two decades of counseling couples, I’ve seen what works. The key is becoming a TEAM against the defenses that keep you apart. If you’re ready to stop feeling disconnected in your relationship, book your free 15-minute introductory call now.
“Debbie & her coaching saved our marriage! We have had so much going on these past few months, I’m not sure if we would have made it out still together if it weren’t for her help. The support has helped us communicate, listen, and react so much better to each other!”
While you’re managing work, your social life, and endless Austin responsibilities… from tech jobs downtown, to kid drop-offs, to sitting in I-35 traffic, tension builds and small triggers turn into big disconnects.
Get back to enjoying Barton Springs swims, Hill Country drives, or live music nights on South Congress without that undercurrent of tension. Schedule your free consultation and see how online marriage counseling in Austin can help you feel like a team again.
The fighting cycles ended.
We now feel safe to share anything with each other.
– MARRIED ENTREPRENEURS IN TEXAS
When life in Austin moves fast, your marriage can start to feel like just another task on your to-do list. You used to feel that rush of excitement when you saw each other… maybe when you first walked around Lady Bird Lake, cheered on the Longhorns, or discovered new food trucks together. But now you feel more like roommates.
Online marriage counseling in Austin can help you become stronger partners… even if your week is packed with after-school activities, business trips, or community commitments. Reconnect from wherever you are in Texas.
You don’t have to settle for distance. With expert support and practical tools, marriage counseling in Austin helps you break through tension, restore closeness, and bring back the ease and intimacy that once felt effortless. Stop recurring arguments and repair resentments so you can enjoy each other again.
Married. Engaged. Long-term committed. Straight. Bi. Gay. Neurodivergent. Polyamorous.
“WE HAVE HAD MORE AWARENESS & CHANGE FROM THIS PROCESS & TOOLS
THAN ANY OTHER THERAPY WE’VE EVER DONE.”
– COUPLE MARRIED FOR 20 YEARS
DEBBIE CHERRY, LMFT
Marriage counseling is a process where a licensed marriage and family therapist helps spouses work through relationship challenges, improve communication, and resolve conflict in a safe, supportive space. Unlike general family therapy, marriage counseling focuses directly on your bond as partners, while still honoring the influence of family systems and life stressors.
Through a collaborative psychotherapy approach, a therapist helps you discover tools, gain insight, navigate life transitions, and create better conversations that lead to lasting change. For many Austin couples, marriage counseling provides not just relief but also hope… a chance to heal from pain, build deeper understanding, and create a fulfilling relationship where both partners feel seen and valued.
Finding the right marriage counselor is a big predictor of positive therapy outcomes. I offer a free 15-minute consultation if you want to talk more about working together.
Yes. I provide secure online therapy and video sessions for Austin couples, as well as those across Texas. Many spouses prefer online sessions because they allow for more comfort, privacy, and accessibility. Research shows that online marriage counseling is as effective as in-person.
I also offer online couples counseling and, when helpful, can integrate individual therapy for self-improvement and personal growth. For partners experiencing anxiety, depression, grief, or low self-esteem, online therapy often feels less intimidating and provides more space to open up.
Being in your own space lowers defenses, builds rapport faster, and helps you open up more easily, so you get results sooner. You can see client success stories, reviews and results here.
Spouses often seek professional help for a wide range of struggles:
Not all therapy options are the same. Many couples have tried counseling in the past that felt like “just talking.” My approach is different: it’s a collaborative process with specialized training in research-backed methods like the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
Marriage counseling brings awareness to behaviors and patterns that keep you stuck. It offers tools to reduce shame, heal trauma, and create space for insight, self-exploration, and growth as a couple.
Every marriage is different. Some spouses come for just a few sessions to address one issue, while others commit to 3–6 months of regular sessions.
Yes. I provide flexible scheduling, including Saturdays & Sundays, to make room for your marriage in the middle of busy lives.
In the first session, both partners share their perspectives, struggles, and hopes for the marriage. I’ll also complete an assessment to see if therapy is a good fit.
Yes. Every session provides structured tools you can use at home right away. These include communication scripts, repair rituals, connection practices, coping skills, and journaling prompts for self discovery. The goal is to help you not only talk, but also process emotions, assess progress, and create lasting positive change that strengthens your sense of connection and self worth.
These tools are designed to help California couples go from stuck and disconnected to more secure and supported, together. Want a sneak peek? Download the Connected Communication Toolkit here.
While individual therapy focuses on your personal growth, marriage counseling treats the relationship as the client.
No. A licensed family therapist remains neutral. My role is to help you cope, communicate, and discover new ways forward together.
No. Many couples begin counseling proactively, not just when dealing with trauma, depression, or divorce threats.
Sometimes. Insurance may cover sessions when linked to a mental health diagnosis.
Sessions range from $175–$350 per 50-minute session depending on your benefits.
Coverage depends on your plan. Some reimburse for counseling tied to mental health struggles, others do not. It’s always best to assess with your provider before starting.
I accept credit cards, debit cards, and HSA/FSA cards.
Yes. Confidentiality is central to psychotherapy and mental health services. Many couples choose private pay to ensure their sessions remain private, providing a safe space without a diagnostic record.
Look for someone with specialized training in couples and families, a warm style, and the expertise to make you both feel comfortable. A good fit matters more than anything else… the therapeutic relationship is the foundation for lasting change.
Austin is one of the most diverse cities in the country, and relationship counseling is most helpful when it respects those differences. As a licensed family therapist and couples therapist, I tailor therapy to honor your culture, values, and lived experiences. This process fosters deeper conversations, greater understanding, and practical strategies that support strong relationships. Every individual couple has a unique perspective, and my goal is to help you deepen empathy, improve communication, and build happiness together.
Yes. I work with couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent, and I provide affirming therapy options for LGBTQ+ or same sex couples, as well as open relationships and nontraditional families. My approach blends psychotherapy, trauma therapy when needed, and intensive couples counseling with practical tools so you can gain insight, develop coping skills, and create better relationships. The focus is always on helping you navigate challenges, express emotions, and discover strategies that make your journey toward happiness sustainable.
That’s common. Some partners feel suffering, resistance, or fear around therapy. My role as a couples counselor and family therapist is to make the process feel safe, compassionate, and like a good fit for both of you. Through structured conversations, we can assess patterns, discuss challenges, and identify ways to improve communication. Even if only one partner is interested at first, marriage counseling can begin the healing journey and lead to lasting change. For many couples, simply making contact with a therapist provides relief and a sense of future possibility.
Yes. As part of my mental health services, I provide inclusive, trauma-informed couples counseling for LGBTQ+ and same sex couples. Having a supportive, affirming family therapist can be an important part of healing, fostering understanding, and building emotional resilience. This work includes compassionate conversations, conflict repair, and practical strategies to strengthen your connection. My role is to help you express your needs, navigate challenges, and feel safe to talk openly as you work toward a happier, more fulfilling relationship.
That’s okay. Marriage counseling helps you assess your relationship, have guided conversations, and discover whether moving forward together or apart is the healthiest path. This process provides clarity, insight, and compassion so you can make decisions with empathy and self-worth. Together we will explore your individual couple story, identify patterns that may be blocking intimacy, and create space for each partner to express what they truly want for the future.
Marriage counseling may not be a good fit if there is ongoing violence, untreated severe mental illness, or immediate safety concerns. In these cases, different therapy options such as trauma therapy, crisis-level psychotherapy, or individual sessions are a more helpful path before couples counseling can begin. If safety is established, we can then work on conflict resolution, communication repair, and practical strategies to support strong relationships and lasting happiness.
