You miss your partner. No matter what you do, the same fights keep happening. The distance between you grows, leaving you feeling frustrated and disconnected.
Marriage counseling online gives you expert guidance and practical TOOLS to break the cycle, communicate better, and reconnect.
Whether you’re in Austin, Houston, Dallas, San Antonio, or anywhere in between, online marriage counseling gives you flexible scheduling, weekend appointments, and practical tools to stop negative patterns and reconnect as lifelong partners.
After undergraduate school at The University of Texas at Austin, I headed off to graduate school at the University of Southern California in Los Angeles. Here is one of the most eye-opening lessons I learned: The biggest factor in a client’s success isn’t the type of therapy, the technique, or even the duration. It’s the strength of the therapeutic relationship.
After 15 years of marriage and two decades of counseling couples, I’ve seen what works. The key is becoming a TEAM against the defenses that keep you apart. If you’re ready to stop feeling disconnected in your relationship, book your free 15-minute introductory call now.
“Debbie & her coaching saved our marriage! We have had so much going on these past few months, I’m not sure if we would have made it out still together if it weren’t for her help. The support has helped us communicate, listen, and react so much better to each other!”
Get back to enjoying weekend Hill Country drives, hiking in Big Bend, or beach sunsets on the Gulf Coast without that undercurrent of tension. Schedule your free consultation and see how online marriage counseling in Texas can help you feel like a team again.
The fighting cycles ended.
We now feel safe to share anything with each other.
– MARRIED ENTREPRENEURS IN TEXAS
When life in Texas moves fast, your marriage can start to feel like just another task on your to-do list. You used to feel that rush of excitement when you saw each other… maybe when you first explored South Congress in Austin, cheered on your team at a Cowboys game, or danced at a music festival, but now you feel more like roommates.
Online marriage counseling in TX can help you become stronger partners… even if your week is packed with after-school activities, business trips, or community commitments. Reconnect from wherever you are in Texas.
You don’t have to settle for distance. With expert support and practical tools, marriage counseling in Texas helps you break through tension, restore closeness, and bring back the ease and intimacy that once felt effortless. Stop recurring arguments and repair resentments so you can enjoy each other again.
Married. Engaged. Long-term committed. Straight. Bi. Gay. Neurodivergent. Polyamorous.
“WE HAVE HAD MORE AWARENESS & CHANGE FROM THIS PROCESS & TOOLS
THAN ANY OTHER THERAPY WE’VE EVER DONE.”
– COUPLE MARRIED FOR 20 YEARS
DEBBIE CHERRY, LMFT
Marriage counseling is a process where a licensed marriage and family therapist helps spouses work through relationship challenges, improve communication, and resolve conflict in a safe, supportive space. Unlike general family therapy, marriage counseling focuses directly on your bond as partners, while still honoring the influence of family systems and life stressors.
Through a collaborative approach, a therapist helps you discover tools to feel more connected in the present, understand the past, and take the first step toward a more secure future. For many Texas couples, marriage counseling provides not just relief but also hope… a chance to heal from pain, find peace, and build a fulfilling relationship where both partners feel seen and valued.
Finding the right marriage counselor is a big predictor of positive therapy outcomes. I offer a free 15-minute consultation if you want to talk more about working together.
Yes. I provide secure online therapy and video sessions for Texas couples, from El Paso to Houston. Many spouses prefer online sessions because they allow for more comfort, privacy, and accessibility. Research shows that online marriage counseling is as effective as in-person.
I also offer online couples therapy and, when needed, can integrate individual therapy for self-exploration and growth. For partners experiencing anxiety, depression, grief, or low self-esteem, online therapy often feels less intimidating and provides more space to open up.
Being in your own space lowers defenses, builds rapport faster, and helps you open up more easily, so you get results sooner. You can see client success stories, reviews and results here.
Spouses often seek therapy services for a wide range of struggles:
Not all therapy services are the same. Many couples have tried counseling in the past that felt like “just talking.” My approach is different: it’s a collaborative approach with specialized training in research-backed methods like the Gottman Method and attachment theory.
Marriage counseling brings awareness to patterns that keep you stuck. It offers tools to reduce pain, heal trauma, and create space for self-exploration and growth as a couple.
Every marriage is different. Some spouses come for just a few sessions to address one issue, while others commit to 3–6 months of regular sessions.
Yes. I provide flexible scheduling, including Saturdays & Sundays, to make room for your marriage in the middle of busy lives.
In the first session, both partners share their perspectives, struggles, and hopes for the marriage.
Yes. Every session provides structured tools you can use at home right away. These include communication scripts, repair rituals, connection practices, coping skills, and journaling prompts for self discovery. The goal is to help you not only talk, but also process emotions, assess progress, and create lasting positive change that strengthens your sense of connection and self worth.
These tools are designed to help California couples go from stuck and disconnected to more secure and supported, together. Want a sneak peek? Download the Connected Communication Toolkit here.
While individual therapy focuses on your personal growth, marriage counseling treats the relationship as the client.
No. A licensed family therapist remains neutral.
No. Many couples begin counseling proactively, not just when dealing with trauma, depression, or divorce threats.
Sometimes. Insurance may cover sessions when linked to a mental health diagnosis.
Sessions range from $175–$350 per 50-minute session depending on your benefits.
Coverage depends on your plan. Some reimburse for counseling tied to mental health struggles, others do not. It’s always best to assess with your provider before starting.
I accept credit cards, debit cards, and HSA/FSA cards.
Yes. Confidentiality is central to psychotherapy and mental health services. Many couples choose private pay to ensure their sessions remain private, providing a safe space without a diagnostic record.
Look for someone with specialized training in marriage and family work, a collaborative approach, and a style that makes you both feel safe.
Austin is one of the most diverse regions in the country, and couples counseling is most helpful when it respects those differences. As a licensed family therapist with a master’s degree and years of professional help guiding couples and families, I tailor therapy to honor your culture, values, and lived experiences. This process fosters deeper conversations, greater understanding, and practical tools that support fulfilling relationships. My approach integrates emotionally focused therapy, behavioral insight, and knowledge of partner dynamics so couples can create lasting change.
Many couples just try one session and take it from there. You might be surprised how much clarity and hope you can gain right away. Book your free consultation here and let’s take the first step together.
Yes. I work with couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent, and I provide affirming therapy options for LGBTQ+ or same sex couples, as well as nontraditional families. This includes adults, parents with children, and those exploring consensual non-monogamy. My approach to couples counseling blends psychotherapy, trauma therapy when needed, and a holistic approach with practical tools so you can gain insight, develop coping skills, and create better relationships.
That’s common. Some partners feel suffering, resistance, or fear around therapy. My role as a couples counselor and family therapist is to make the process feel safe, compassionate, and like a good fit for both of you. Through structured conversations, we can assess patterns, discuss challenges, and identify ways to improve communication. Even if only one partner is interested at first, marriage counseling can begin the healing journey and lead to lasting change. For many couples, simply making contact with a therapist provides relief and a sense of future possibility.
Yes. As part of my mental health services, I provide inclusive, trauma-informed couples counseling for LGBTQ+ and same sex couples. Having a supportive, affirming family therapist can be an important part of healing, fostering understanding, and building emotional resilience. This work includes compassionate conversations, conflict repair, and practical strategies to strengthen your connection. My role is to help you express your needs, navigate challenges, and feel safe to talk openly as you work toward a happier, more fulfilling relationship.
That’s okay. Marriage counseling helps you assess your relationship, have guided conversations, and discover whether moving forward together or apart is the healthiest path. This process provides clarity, insight, and compassion so you can make decisions with empathy and self-worth. Together we will explore your individual couple story, identify patterns that may be blocking intimacy, and create space for each partner to express what they truly want for the future.
Marriage counseling may not be a good fit if there is ongoing violence, untreated severe mental illness, or immediate safety concerns. In these cases, different therapy options such as trauma therapy, crisis-level psychotherapy, or individual sessions are a more helpful path before couples counseling can begin. If safety is established, we can then work on conflict resolution, communication repair, and practical strategies to support strong relationships and lasting happiness.
